The Easter Bunny Has Been Outed! (Santa too.)

easterbunnyThis Easter my Grandtoys (grandchildren) reached a milestone.

A bit of sleuthing by my eight-year-old granddaughter, J____ revealed Mommy is the Easter Bunny.

It seems the receipt for the candy Mommy bought caused some curiosity, especially when she snatched it from J____’s hand and forbade her to read it.

The night before Easter my daughter had wondered out loud to her friends how long she must keep up the pretense of the Easter Bunny, since her kids are eight and eleven, long past when most kids’ faith has been altered.

When the bunny was out of the bag, she was worried about the repercussions on the fragile psyche of her kids. J___ simply said, “You’ve been going to all this trouble for us? Thank you, Mommy!” Hug.

No tears. No anguish. Just raw appreciation for the efforts Mommy made to bring fun and joy to her children.

“I guess this means you’re Santa too.”



No drama there, either.

My nephew was seven when his sister was born. My sister, his mom warned him when he figured out the truth. “You will not spoil your sister’s fun. As long as you comply, Santa will leave you gifts too.” Worked like a charm!

Magic and make-believe are vital components of a great childhood. But things change. We grow up. We must face the realities of life. We have to put away childish games and thoughts.

Does that mean we abandon magic? Absolutely not!

As adults we get to MAKE magic. We stretch our budgets to give gifts, which we often give anonymously or on behalf of a make-believe being. We pretend to be someone else simply to bring a smile to a child’s face. As adults we have the power to bring magic into the lives of people around us. We get to be angels.

If you’ve ever seen the shining eyes of a child who has been touched by magic, you know how precious it is.

While receiving magic is wonderful, the true joy is in giving magic. Ask any grandparent.


PS: What do you call a rabbit whose field is anesthesiology?

The Ether Bunny!

Diaper Cake (Reader requested repeat)


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Throwing a baby shower for a friend who was having twin boys was very likely a once-in-a-lifetime event for me, so I wanted to do something really memorable. The added challenge was that she already had two children so she had most of her baby needs covered.

Somewhere nestled in the recesses of my mind was the idea of a statue or display made of diapers. A quick search on the internet revealed a number of interesting sites with instructions and pictures of “diaper cakes” readers had made.

After studying the process and looking at scores of images I jumped in and created a Diaper Cake.

Constructing a diaper cake is relatively simple, requiring only a few items. Diapers must be rolled tightly and secured with rubber bands. Large rubber bands hold everything together. The rest of the “ingredients” are pretty much up to you. Here is a list of ingredients I used:

  • Pizza pan
  • 110 Newborn disposable diapers
  • 4 receiving blankets
  • 6 pairs baby socks
  • 2 newborn long-sleeved onesies
  • 2 sleepers 0-3
  • 6 washcloths
  • 2 diaper shirts
  • 8 bibs
  • 2 “key” teething rings (BPA free)
  • 4 soft spoons (BPA free)
  • 2 baby bottles (BPA free)
  • 6 pacifiers (BPA free)
  • 2 Baby Safe Feeders (2 refills)
  • 2 pacifier clips
  • Organic Baby Shampoo*
  • Organic Baby Body Lotion
  • Baby Bum Balm
  • 4 Bright and Early Cardboard Books
  • Baby Faces Album
  • Candy for big brother and sister
  • Bath & Body GC for Mom!
  • Ribbon for decorating


This is how I made my diaper cake:

I wrapped a new pizza pan in a receiving blanket. In the centre, I placed a large (round) bottle of organic baby shampoo*. Using elastic bands, I wrapped the stray ends of the receiving blanket snugly around the bottle. Then I placed about six or eight rolled diapers (secured with an elastic band) around the bottle and put a large rubber band around the entire ring of diapers, securing the bottle tightly to the pan.

Next, I formed a second ring by placing diapers around the first ring of diapers. I completed it by placing a large rubber band around the second ring. Then I repeated for the third ring. I incorporated three more receiving blankets into the outside ring of the bottom layer by rolling them into similar sized rolls as the diapers. I also included some bibs into this layer; then I wrapped a huge ribbon around the whole bottom to hide the elastics and secure the rings.


I continued building layers, repeating the basic ring-making instructions. I incorporated sleepers, onesies and more bibs into the outside rings of each layer. For the third and fourth layers, I added a bottle of organic baby lotion on top of the shampoo bottle and built rings around it as I did for the first two layers.



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Tips: Put the rubber band for each ring of diapers around the center first and then slide in the diapers. It is very difficult to set diapers up and then hold them in place while you put a rubber band around them. When you’re rolling the diapers, make sure they’re not banded too tightly as they won’t stack as well and they could be damaged.


Once the structure was complete, then came the fun part: decorating my cake! I added little baby items like pacifiers, teething rings, baby hygiene products, toys, books, bum balm, etc. I placed them between the folds of the diapers, slid them under the elastics, and tucked the larger items into the outer layer of ribbon. I made “bows” out of baby washcloths and trimmed the base with six pairs of little socks. I topped it off with two BPA-free bottles supported by four baby spoons and tons of ribbon curls.


I even added candy for the twins’ older siblings and a gift card for Mom to pamper herself.


This was a really fun and easy project that even children could do with a little guidance. It took me about five hours.

It turned out that it wasn’t a once in a lifetime venture. Eight months later I made another diaper cake for another colleague having twins! (We were all afraid to drink the water!) That time I spent less than two hours constructing the cake. I started it with a big basket instead of a pizza pan.

Showing up at a baby shower with a diaper cake will dazzle the new mom and make her feel special. Plus it’s fun dismantling a diaper cake and discovering its hidden treasures.

See more pictures and instructions online by searching “diaper cakes”.

Originally published: November 2011

Edited: February 2014

 (*Recently reported that Johnson’s Bay Shampoo contains carcinogenic substances.  European versions apparently don’t have these compounds but Johnson & Johnson refuses to change the North American formula.)


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